South Jersey Laws
Letter of Instruction


The handling of a person's personal affairs after death can be made much easier if he or she has left a letter of instruction. A letter of instruction is a document given to an executor or attorney that gives some or all of the following information.

  • Name, addresses and telephone numbers of the persons who should be notified about the death and their relationship to the deceased.
  • Where the person's will is located.
  • Any instructions about the person's funeral or burial arrangements.
  • Where the person's important records are located, such as:
    • birth certificate;
    • baptismal certificate;
    • marriage certificate or divorce judgment;
    • title to automobiles the person owns;
    • deed to the person's house or other real estate;
    • military discharge papers for a veteran;
    • naturalization or citizenship papers;
    • social security card.
  • Where any safety deposit boxes are located and where the keys are kept.
  • A listing of all bank accounts together with information on where passbooks or account statements are kept.
  • Where any bills are located.
  • Where any insurance policies are located.
  • Where any tax returns are located.
  • Where any jewelry or other valuables are kept.

This information will make it easier to locate all of the documents needed to administer an estate and carry out a person's wishes after his or her death. During a time of grief, even close family members may forget the location of important papers or the key to a safety deposit box.

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